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346 Heather Shares Her Story of Parental Suicide, Childhood Abuse, and Healing in Sobriety

Can We End The Shame and Stigma of Addiction? Can we turn survival skills into healthy coping skills? Is it even really possible to heal from childhood trauma? Today my guest Heather Zuchowski and I addressed all these questions, and it might sound weird, but we actually had a great time! Heather is smart, shes funny, and very talented in her work. I so appreciated her vulnerability and transparency as we talked about the hardest parts of her story as well. She really delivers on the solutions too, which I love. Also, I have something fun to suggest to those brave souls who are listening right now. the response to the coaching calls has been so good, that I've decided to make them a regular part of the show! Here's the deal, if you are struggling with an issue like a difficult family member, ending a relationship, a situation at work,& maybe you're struggling with letting go of a sponsor, procrastination, dealing with grief, whatever and you'd like to talk it thr...

345 Can You Get Sober Through Online Groups?

Welcome to the podcast! If you’re listening in from the US, UK, Australia, Ireland, Germany & China - I’m so glad you’re here! You’re a part of a community that is listening from 69 countries. How cool is that?! I mention the different countries because I’m very aware that a lot of people don’t have access to large recovery communities in their local towns. But we’re living in a digital age, where people in recovery can connect, and stay sober through online groups. Today, my guest Paul will share his story of alcoholism, why he decided to stop drinking, and the online group he joined that has helped him to stay sober for over 15 years.  Before we jump in, I have the biggest announcement I’ve ever made… which is that my book is FINALLY available for pre-order on Amazon! It’s called “The 12 Step Guide for Skeptics: Clearing Up Common Misconceptions of a Path to Sobriety”. And if you’ve ever had a bad experience with 12 step, or feel turned off by AA, I just ask that you try ...

344 Parents In Recovery, Navigating A Sober Family Lifestyle

Are you a sober parent? Because if you are, you need to know youre not alone in navigating this sober lifestyle. We have different challenges which require a specific skill set. In her new book Parents in Recovery Navigating a Sober Family Lifestyle my guest Sarah Benton provides the solutions we need to create the peaceful loving families homes we all want for our kids. Shes going to share some stories, and some practical tools that you can use right away. Before we jump in, I have to share that I finally have a publication date for my book, The 12-Step Guide for Skeptics Clearing up Common Misconceptions o a Path to Sobriety which is Friday October 25th! Ive been talking about this book for what feels like forever, so I have to say, it feels very surreal to finally be at this point! The book is really my attempt to make the 12 step process available to those who are curious about it, but have stayed away due to shameful labels, religious trauma, or rigid oldtimers. There is a way...

343 Coaching Call: Paul M on Making Amends, Healing A Marriage, and Processing Grief

This is a little bonus episode. I’ll be experimenting with some different formats, so if you find this valuable, please let me know and I’ll do more of them! This is actually a very important topic about relationships. If you are  in the process of getting sober, you’re probably in the process of repairing relationships too. Today I’m having a chat with Paul who answered my call for volunteers who are dealing with challenges in sobriety. We’re going to be discussing his marriage of 37 years and the struggle he faces in coping with resentment from his wife. I just want to thank Paul for his openness, vulnerability and his desire to be of service to others. So without further delay, please enjoy this episode, and let me know what you think! Subscribe So You Don’t Miss New Episodes! Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts , Spotify , or Amazon Music, or you can stream it from my website HERE .  Subscribe on YouTube Here: https://www.youtube.com/@theonedayatatimepodcast?sub...

342 Sober Sanity During an Election Year

Is this election season making you feel crazy? I know Im feeling frustrated and sad with where we are as a nation. There is a lot of tension in the air, I see long time friendships that are ending, and with the holiday season just around the corner, we need to find a better way to relate to our families that have different perspectives. And I just have to admit, I have plenty of my own biased thinking. I want to be open to allowing new ideas that will help me be the kind of loving person I want to be. Today my guest TJ Woodward and I are going to talk openly about how to maintain our sanity, and find a new way to relate to those we disagree with, all without abandoning our values. TJs name might sound familiar to you. He was my guest for episode #311. As a little refresher, TJ is the author of Conscious Recovery A Fresh Perspective On Recovery, and a person in long term recovery with 37 years of sobriety! This is a very important conversation. I hope it helps you find peace the wa...

341 How To Know If You Have An Anger Problem and 5 Ways To Manage It

Do you have an anger problem? It seems like it would be obvious, but if you have learned to suppress or deny your feelings, you may not recognize it or how its affecting your life. Michelle Farris joins me today to talk about 4 ways to identify anger, and 5 ways to manage it. Michelle is a licensed psychotherapist and person in recovery. This is actually her third time on the podcast, so if you want to hear her whole story, just go to odaatchat.com and Ill leave a link in the show notes. Before we jump in, I just wanted to let you know that Im publishing educational videos on my youtube channel. Ill be covering topics like how to rebuild self-esteem, tips to stop drinking, and long form sleep hypnosis to help you rewire your brain for improved self worth, detachment from overthinking, trust in the universe, self love and confidence.  Just visit The one day at a time recovery podcast on YouTube, and as always, the link will be in the show notes. https //odaatchat.com/index.php/2...